Thanksgiving 2026 Budget: Host Without Overspending
Thanksgiving Day 2026 falls on Thursday, November 26, 2026 β the fourth Thursday in November, a US federal holiday. From today, October 30, that is 27 days away: close enough that the turkey, the guest list, and the grocery trips are already on your mind, and far enough away that you can still plan the money properly. Hosting Thanksgiving is generous, and it can also be expensive in a quiet, creeping way. Nobody overspends on a single item. They overspend a little on the turkey, a little on the drinks, a little on decorations, a little on extra food for guests who stay the weekend β and then the credit card statement arrives in December and tells the real story.
This guide stops that from happening, in the order that actually works. First, you set one total for the whole day. Then you do the guest-count math, so the menu fits the number of people who are really coming. Then you share the cooking fairly with a potluck, build a shopping plan around store brands and sales, keep drinks and decorations simple, and budget honestly for out-of-town guests. Finally, you run a short no-regret check so January starts clean, with no credit-card hangover. Every dollar figure in this guide is a clearly labelled worked example, not a claim about what Thanksgiving "should" cost. Your total is yours: swap in your own numbers and the method still works.
If you have never made a budget before, read our beginner's guide to budgeting first, then come back here. If you already know roughly what comes in and goes out each month, you can start straight below, with the single most important step of all.
Step 1: Set your Thanksgiving total first
Every Thanksgiving that stays affordable starts with one number: the total amount you will spend on hosting, all in. Not a rough idea, not a hope β a written number, decided before the first grocery trip. Without that number, every single purchase feels small and reasonable, and the total only reveals itself later, when it is too late to change it. The host who never sets a total is not careless. They are just making dozens of small decisions without any frame to hold them together, and the frame is exactly what this step provides.
So how do you pick a number you can actually afford? Work backwards from your normal money, not forwards from a wish list. First, make sure your ordinary November bills β rent or mortgage, utilities, regular groceries, transport β are covered. Thanksgiving money must never come out of the rent money or the bill money. Second, look at what is genuinely left over, plus anything you can set aside in the next four weeks without missing a bill. Third, that amount is your total. If that amount is small, that is useful information, not a failure. A modest Thanksgiving planned properly beats a lavish Thanksgiving paid for on credit every single time, because the memories are made by the people at the table, not by the price of what is on it.
One way to sanity-check your total is to look at it next to your normal monthly budget. If you use the 50-30-20 budget rule, Thanksgiving comes out of the "wants" side of your money, not the "needs" side β which is another way of saying it should never push a need, like a bill, into trouble. And if you are not sure where your money currently goes each month, our guide to tracking your spending will give you the real numbers in a week or two. Guessing your total from a feeling is how budgets break; building it from your actual spending is how they hold.
Here is that idea as a worked example, with every figure labelled as an example only. Suppose you look at your November budget and decide you can afford a $300 Thanksgiving total. That $300 then has to cover everything: food, drinks, decor, and any extra guest costs. Splitting it up before you spend a dollar is what stops one category quietly eating all the others:
| Category | Example budget | What it covers |
|---|---|---|
| Main food and sides | $180 | Turkey or main dish, sides, bread, dessert ingredients |
| Drinks | $50 | Water, soft drinks, coffee, and anything alcoholic you choose to serve |
| Decor and table | $30 | Candles, napkins, and any small seasonal touches |
| Guest costs | $40 | Extra food for overnight guests, fuel for pickups, spare bedding basics |
| Total | $300 | $180 + $50 + $30 + $40 = $300 |
Your own split will look different, and that is fine. A household where guests bring most of the food will put far less on the food line. A household with family staying for the whole weekend will put more on guest costs. The point is not the exact split β it is that the split exists, on paper, before the spending starts. Write the total down somewhere you will actually see it: a note on your phone, a page in a notebook, or a message to your partner. A total that lives only in your head is a total you will renegotiate every time you walk past a display of seasonal treats.
Finally, give the total a home. If you can, move the money into a separate savings pot or a separate account as soon as you decide it β the same sinking fund idea we recommend for any cost you know is coming. Money sitting in your main checking account will get spent, because that is what checking accounts are for. Money in a labelled pot is already Thanksgiving's money, and spending it on anything else feels like what it is: borrowing from your own holiday.
Step 2: Do the guest-count math
Once the total exists, the next question is simple: how many people is it feeding? Thanksgiving budgets go wrong most often right here, because hosts plan for the people they hope will come, or the people who came last year, instead of the people who have actually confirmed. A menu built for twelve that feeds eight wastes food and money. A menu built for eight that has to stretch to twelve means a stressed host and a rushed extra grocery run at the worst possible prices.
So get confirmations early, and be specific when you ask. "Are you coming for Thanksgiving?" is a start, but "Are you coming for dinner on Thursday, and are you staying Thursday night, Friday, or the whole weekend?" is the question that actually lets you plan. Children count too, even if they eat less β they still need a seat, a plate, and usually dessert twice. Write the confirmed list down, with who is staying over and for how long, and plan the food from that list, not from a guess.
Now do the per-person math on your example total, because it turns a vague number into a practical limit. Using the $300 example total from above, here is what the food-and-drinks portion looks like at different guest counts:
| Confirmed guests (including you) | Example food and drinks budget | Per person, for food and drinks |
|---|---|---|
| 4 people | $230 | $57.50 per person |
| 8 people | $230 | $28.75 per person |
| 12 people | $230 | About $19.17 per person |
Read that table the right way round. It does not say a bigger group is cheaper to host β it says the same money stretches thinner as the group grows, so a bigger group needs either a bigger total or more shared contributions. That is exactly why the potluck step below matters so much for large gatherings: twelve people sharing the cooking is a feast, while twelve people fed by one host on one budget is a strain. If the per-person figure for your group looks uncomfortably tight, that is your early warning to either raise the total honestly, from money you genuinely have, or ask guests to bring more. Both are better than discovering the problem at the checkout.
Also plan for the shape of the day, not just the headcount. Will people arrive hungry at midday, or graze all afternoon before one big evening meal? Is anyone vegetarian, vegan, gluten-free, or dealing with an allergy? Dietary needs are not extras to improvise around on the day β they change the shopping list, and planning for them in advance is both kinder and cheaper than a last-minute separate shop. A short message to the group now β "Let me know about any dietary needs by next week" β saves money, waste, and an awkward moment at the table.
Step 3: Share the cooking with a potluck
Here is the single biggest money-saver in this whole guide, and it is also the one guests usually like most: the potluck. In a potluck, each guest or household brings one dish, and the host provides the main dish and the home. Nobody carries the whole cost, nobody spends the whole day in the kitchen alone, and the table ends up more varied than anything one cook would have made. Most guests are relieved to be asked, because turning up empty-handed to a big meal feels awkward, and being given a specific job feels welcoming.
The trick is to assign dishes, not just invite contributions. An open invitation β "bring whatever you like" β reliably produces four desserts, no vegetables, and three bags of chips. A simple sign-up list fixes that. Write down every dish the meal needs β main dish, two or three sides, bread or rolls, salad, dessert, drinks β and let each household claim one. The host keeps the main dish and the house, and everything else is claimed. Share the list in the group chat, let people swap if they want to, and keep one copy for yourself so you know what is coming and what is still missing.
Be thoughtful about who brings what. Ask the confident cook for a dish that travels well, like a casserole or a pie. Ask the busy friend for something simple and store-bought, like bread, drinks, or ice β contributing should never feel like a test. Ask the family member with the dietary need to bring the dish they most want to eat safely; that way they are guaranteed something they enjoy, and you are not guessing about ingredients. And be explicit that store-bought is completely fine. A good potluck runs on generosity, not on proving who can cook the most from scratch.
What if someone cannot bring anything? That is fine too, and it should never be a source of embarrassment. A guest who is short of money, travelling light, or simply not a cook can help in other ways: arriving early to set the table, staying late to help clean up, or bringing ice and napkins. The point of sharing the load is that everyone contributes something, not that everyone contributes the same thing. And if a guest insists on bringing nothing at all, let it go gracefully β the meal is still cheaper and happier than hosting every dish alone, and no friendship is worth straining over a side dish.
One honest note: a potluck changes your budget, so update the numbers when the list is settled. If guests are bringing the sides, the desserts, and the drinks, your food line in the example above may drop from $180 to the cost of the main dish and a few basics. Do not quietly spend that saving on extras. Either lower your total β money saved is money saved β or move it deliberately to another line that needs it, like guest costs for the weekend. The saving only counts if you actually keep it.
Step 4: The food shopping plan
With the total set, the guest count confirmed, and the potluck list claimed, you can finally write the shopping list β and the order matters. The menu comes first, the list comes from the menu, and the shop follows the list. Shopping without a menu is how a Thanksgiving shop doubles: every aisle offers another "just in case" item, and "just in case" items are rarely eaten, only paid for. Sit down with the menu, go through it dish by dish, and write down every ingredient you do not already have at home. Then check your pantry, fridge, and freezer before you leave, and cross off anything you already own. Half-used spices, a bag of flour, stock cubes, and frozen vegetables are the items people buy twice most often.
Now the money-saving habits that actually work, in the order to use them. First, choose store brands for the basics. For flour, sugar, stock, canned vegetables, butter for cooking, and bread, the store brand is usually made to the same job as the name brand, at a lower price β and once it is cooked into a dish, nobody at the table can tell the difference. Save any branded spending for the one or two items where taste genuinely matters to you, and let everything else be the store version. Second, read the weekly ads and sales before you shop, and build around what is on offer rather than fighting it. If one store has a good price on the main dish and another on produce, a split shop is worth the extra stop, as long as the fuel and time do not eat the saving. Third, buy ahead where it makes sense: pantry items, frozen vegetables, bread for the freezer, and drinks can all be bought a week or two early, which spreads the cost across two pay periods and keeps the final week calmer.
Fourth, keep the menu focused. A Thanksgiving table does not need eight sides to feel generous β it needs the dishes people actually love, made well, in enough quantity. Ask yourself which dishes disappeared fastest last year, and which ones sat untouched. Cut the untouched ones without guilt. A table with a main dish, three good sides, bread, and one dessert, all eaten with appetite, beats a groaning table where half the food goes into the trash. Fewer dishes also means fewer ingredients, less cooking stress, and less waste β three savings from one decision.
Fifth, think about quantities with the guest count, not with anxiety. It is tempting to buy far too much "in case people are still hungry," but a modest buffer is enough: a little extra of the most popular side, and bread and drinks to spare, because those are cheap, filling, and easy to use up later. For the main dish, check the serving guidance on the packaging and match it to your confirmed guest count, rather than buying the biggest option by default. And if you are cooking for a small group, remember that a smaller main dish, or a different centerpiece altogether, is a perfectly good Thanksgiving β the holiday is about the gathering, not about a particular bird at a particular size.
Finally, watch the final-week traps. The week of Thanksgiving is when stores are busiest, shelves are picked over, and the temptation to grab premium ready-made versions of everything is strongest. Ready-made sides and desserts can be a genuine help for one or two dishes, especially if you are short of time β but buying every dish ready-made is usually the most expensive way to host. Cook the dishes you enjoy cooking, buy the one or two that stress you out, and leave the rest of the premium shortcuts on the shelf. Your total will thank you, and so will your schedule.
Drinks: keep it simple and generous
Drinks deserve their own line in the budget, because they are easy to forget and expensive to improvise. A host who plans the food carefully and then buys drinks in a panic at the last minute will undo a chunk of the saving, and guests notice drinks more than hosts expect β not the labels, but whether there is plenty of something cold, something warm, and something for everyone. The good news is that generous drinks need not mean expensive drinks.
Start with the drink that costs almost nothing and gets drunk the most: water. Put out a large pitcher or two, with ice and lemon or cucumber slices if you like, and keep them filled. Guests drink far more water than hosts usually expect, especially in a warm house full of people and rich food, and a well-stocked water station stops emergency trips for bottled drinks. Next, cover the non-alcoholic bases with one or two crowd-pleasers bought on sale: a sparkling drink, a juice, or a simple punch made from juice and sparkling water. A homemade punch looks festive, serves a crowd from one bowl, and costs far less per glass than individual bottles of anything.
Coffee and tea are the quiet heroes of the afternoon. A pot of coffee after the meal, with tea as an option, costs little and keeps the gathering going happily into the evening. If you already own a slow cooker, it can keep cider or a warm spiced drink hot for hours with no extra effort. For alcoholic drinks, you have two honest options, and both are fine: serve a limited amount you have budgeted for β one or two bottles of wine, or a single batch cocktail β or make it BYOB and say so clearly in the invitation. "Drinks are BYOB, and we will have water, coffee, and punch" is a clear, normal, and welcome message. What causes awkwardness is not BYOB; it is guests arriving unsure whether to bring anything, and a host quietly paying for far more than they planned.
Whatever you choose, buy drinks in the same planned shop as the food, not as a separate last-minute trip, and check what you already have first. Most households have a few bottles tucked away from earlier occasions, and using them is not cheap β it is sensible. Keep the receipt for drinks in the same place as the food receipts, so the final total is honest and complete.
Decor on a budget
Decorations are the category where Thanksgiving spending is most often pure impulse. The shops are full of seasonal items that look charming for about a week and then live in a box for a year, and the $30 decor line in our example total disappears fast if every item is bought new. The fix is to start from what you already own. Before you buy anything, look through your existing decorations, tablecloths, candles, and serving dishes. Most households already own almost everything they need for a warm, festive table β they just forget to look before they shop.
From there, the cheapest decorations are often the most beautiful. A plain tablecloth you already own, cloth napkins if you have them, candles you already have in a drawer, and a few natural touches β pumpkins or gourds from the grocery shop, autumn leaves from the garden, pinecones, or a simple bowl of seasonal fruit as a centerpiece β make a table feel special without a single specialty purchase. If children are coming, let them help: hand-drawn place cards, paper decorations, and a simple gratitude note at each place setting cost almost nothing and are the things guests actually remember and photograph.
If you do buy decorations, set a hard cap before you enter the store, and treat it like any other budget line. The example above allows $30, but your cap might be $10, or zero β all three are fine, as long as the cap is decided in advance. Buy one or two items you will genuinely reuse next year, rather than a basket of single-use novelties. And skip the matching-everything trap: a Thanksgiving table does not need matching plates, matching glasses, and a themed set of everything. Mixed plates, a candle, and a table full of people look better than a catalog photograph, because they look like a home.
One more decor saving that costs nothing: light and timing. If your gathering is in the daytime, open the curtains and let the daylight do the work. If it runs into the evening, dim the main lights and use candles and lamps. Good lighting flatters every table, hides every mismatched plate, and makes the whole room feel intentional β and it is free.
Travel, fuel, and out-of-town guests
Out-of-town guests change the budget in ways that have nothing to do with Thursday dinner, and hosts who forget this end up paying for a whole weekend out of a one-day budget. If family are staying over, you are feeding them on Friday, Saturday, and possibly Sunday too β breakfast, lunch, snacks, and at least one more cooked meal. That food belongs in the budget from the start, not as a surprise. The simplest way to handle it is to plan those extra meals from the leftovers plan below, plus a few cheap, filling staples: eggs, bread, soup ingredients, and pasta. A weekend of good, simple food costs far less than a weekend of takeout ordered because nobody planned what to eat.
Fuel and driving count too. If you are collecting guests from the airport, the train station, or a relative's house, those trips use fuel, and several trips across a weekend add up. Write them into the guest-costs line of your total, and batch them where you can: one airport run that collects two arrivals is half the fuel of two separate runs. If guests have their own car, agree in advance who is driving to any shared outing, so nobody is quietly paying for everyone's transport. And if you are the one travelling to someone else's Thanksgiving rather than hosting, the same logic applies in reverse: fuel, tolls, and parking are part of your holiday total, and checking them before you leave stops a different kind of surprise.
Practical guest costs are easy to miss as well. Do you have enough bedding, towels, and toiletries for overnight guests, or do you need to buy a cheap set? Is there space in the fridge for guests' food, and space in the house for their luggage? A quick check a week before β beds made, towels out, a little space cleared β avoids a rushed shop for basics at the worst possible moment. If you live in a place where November weather can turn, a small buffer for a change of plan, like a delayed arrival or an extra night, is worth keeping in mind, even if you never need it. And remember that guests who stay over usually want to contribute: let them. A guest who cooks breakfast on Friday morning, or who brings groceries for the weekend, is helping in exactly the way that makes hosting sustainable.
Finally, keep the cost-of-living context honest. Hosting costs land differently depending on where you live, and a total that feels comfortable in one city can feel tight in another. If you want a sense of how everyday prices compare across the country, our guide to the cost of living in the USA in 2026 gives the broader picture. The point is not to compare your Thanksgiving with anyone else's β it is to set a total that fits your own rent, your own bills, and your own city, and then to stick to it without apology.
Step 5: The leftovers plan
Leftovers are not an afterthought. They are the second, third, and fourth meals your Thanksgiving budget already paid for, and planning them deliberately is one of the easiest ways to make the whole day cheaper. A host who plans leftovers feeds the household for days afterwards from the same shop. A host who does not plan them throws food away on Sunday and orders takeout on Monday β paying twice for the same weekend.
So plan the leftover meals at the same time as you plan the main menu. The classic pattern writes itself: sliced main dish with bread and salad the next day, a soup or a curry-style dish made from the remaining meat and vegetables the day after, and a simple hash or sandwich for the day after that. The exact dishes matter less than the fact that they are decided in advance, because a decided meal gets cooked, while an undecided fridge full of containers gets ignored until it is too late. Write the leftover meals on the same page as the menu, and buy the few extra ingredients they need β bread, stock, tortillas, or soup vegetables β in the original shop, while you are already there.
Two practical habits make leftovers work. First, pack them up promptly on the day, into clear containers, labelled if it helps, and get them into the fridge the same evening rather than leaving food out while the gathering winds down. Clear containers matter because you eat what you can see; a fridge full of mystery boxes is a fridge full of waste. Second, send guests home with food. Packing a container for each household is generous, traditional, and practical: it shares the food while it is fresh, it empties your fridge to a manageable amount, and it means the people you fed on Thursday get a second good meal from your table. Nobody has ever been disappointed to go home with leftovers.
For food safety basics β how to store, chill, and reheat holiday food safely β check the free guidance on Nutrition.gov, the US government's nutrition and food information portal, which links to official food safety resources. The short version is simple: keep food chilled, reheat it thoroughly, and do not keep leftovers indefinitely. When in doubt, throw it out β saving a few dollars is never worth a sick household, and a good leftovers plan means there is very little doubt in the first place.
Step 6: The no-regret check β no credit-card hangover
Here is the part of Thanksgiving that causes the most January misery, and it is worth understanding clearly. A credit card lets you take Thanksgiving home now and pay for it later. That sounds convenient. The problem is the calendar: the payments arrive in December and January, exactly when the heating bills are highest, the holiday feeling has gone, and the next month's budget is already tight. A Thanksgiving paid for on credit is not a cheaper Thanksgiving β it is the same Thanksgiving, plus the stress of paying for it again in spirit, once in November's excitement and again in January's worry.
Buy now, pay later services deserve the same caution, because they feel different from borrowing. They are presented at the checkout as a simple way to split a payment, and a single split payment is manageable. The trap is stacking: several different plans, from different stores, each taking money in the same month, add up to a large monthly total that no single checkout screen ever showed you. If you use these services at all, the safe rule is strict: only for items already inside your Thanksgiving total, only if you have written down every future payment date, and only if you have checked that your December and January budgets cover all of them together. If that check fails, the item is not affordable yet β no matter how the checkout screen frames it.
Credit cards follow the same logic. Paying the full balance when the statement arrives means no extra cost beyond what you spent. Paying only the minimum means the balance carries forward, month after month, and a one-day celebration can take many months to clear. The honest question to ask before any card purchase is not "Can I afford the monthly payment?" but "Can I afford the whole price, and will I clear it in full?" If the answer to the second question is no, the purchase belongs on next year's list, not this year's card. The Consumer Financial Protection Bureau's credit card guides explain, in plain language, how interest, minimum payments, and statements actually work β worth reading before the holiday shopping starts, not after it.
None of this is a judgement. Many households use credit over the holidays, and many manage it fine. The difference between the households that manage it and the households that struggle is almost always the same: the first group had a total, knew what they owed, and had a plan to clear it. The second group discovered the total in January. So run this no-regret check before Thanksgiving week, while you can still change things. First: add up every receipt so far and compare it with your total β are you still inside it? Second: list any remaining payments, with their dates, so nothing surprises you. Third: look at your December budget and confirm that those payments are covered without missing a bill. If any line fails, trim now β drop a dish, simplify the decor, or ask a guest to bring one more item β while trimming is still easy. If you are already carrying card debt that feels unmanageable, free, confidential help is available from nonprofit credit counselors in the US.
And if this Thanksgiving does not go perfectly β if a dish went over budget, or a journey cost more than planned β do not throw the whole plan away. Note what went wrong, adjust next year's total or split, and keep the habit. A budget is not a test you pass or fail. It is a tool you sharpen, one holiday at a time.
Once Thanksgiving dinner is planned, the next spending test is the sales β our guide to Black Friday shopping without debt covers it.
Your 4-week Thanksgiving checklist
Here is the whole plan as a week-by-week checklist, starting from today, October 30, 2026. Tick each stage off as you complete it, and Thanksgiving will arrive as a celebration, not a bill.
| When | Do this | Why it matters |
|---|---|---|
| Now (Oct 30) | Set your total, move it to a separate pot, send the guest confirmation message | Every later decision gets easier once the total exists |
| Week 1 (early Nov) | Confirm the guest list, assign potluck dishes, plan the menu and leftover meals | Assigned dishes prevent duplicates; planned leftovers prevent waste |
| Week 2 (mid Nov) | Buy pantry items, frozen goods, and drinks on sale; check decor box and guest bedding | Spreads the cost and keeps the final week calm |
| Week 3 (week before) | Write the shopping list from the menu; confirm arrivals, pickups, and dietary needs | Stops duplicate buying and last-minute panic shops |
| Thanksgiving week | Do the planned fresh shop, cook, enjoy it β and keep every receipt in one place | Everything bought is already paid for from the pot |
| Weekend after | Eat the planned leftover meals, send guests home with food, add up the real total | The real total, not a guess, is what next year learns from |
| December | List any remaining payments, check they are covered, start a small monthly pot for next year | January holds no surprises, and next Thanksgiving is already funded |
If you take only one thing from this guide, take this: the total comes first, the spending comes second, and January is part of Thanksgiving, not something that happens after it. Get those three things right and the rest is detail.
Thanksgiving weekend also kicks off Christmas spending β plan it with our Christmas budget in the USA.
Frequently asked questions
How much should I budget for hosting Thanksgiving?
There is no single right number β the right total is the one your own November budget can support after your regular bills are covered. Work backwards: decide what you can set aside over the next four weeks without missing a bill, and that is your total. A smaller total planned properly, with a potluck and a shopping list, always beats a bigger total paid for on credit.
Is a potluck rude, or is it normal for Thanksgiving?
It is completely normal, and most guests prefer it. Being given a specific dish to bring feels welcoming, while turning up empty-handed to a big meal feels awkward. Assign dishes with a simple sign-up list so you do not end up with four desserts and no vegetables, and make it clear that store-bought contributions are welcome. Guests who cannot bring food can help with setting up or cleaning up instead.
How do I keep the food bill down without serving a poor meal?
Plan the menu first and shop to a list written from that menu. Use store brands for the basics, build around weekly sale items, keep the menu focused on the dishes people actually love, and plan leftovers as real meals. A table with a main dish, three good sides, bread, and one dessert, all eaten with appetite, beats a groaning table where half the food is thrown away.
Should I use a credit card or buy now, pay later for Thanksgiving?
Only with strict limits. A purchase already inside your Thanksgiving total, which you will clear in full when the statement arrives, is manageable. The trap is stacked buy-now-pay-later plans from different stores, each taking money in December or January, adding up to a total no single checkout screen showed you. Write down every future payment date, check that your December and January budgets cover all of them together, and skip the purchase if they do not.
What about family staying over for the whole weekend?
Budget for the weekend, not just Thursday. Overnight guests need breakfast, lunch, and snacks on the following days, plus fuel if you are collecting them or driving them around. Plan those extra meals from your leftovers plus cheap staples like eggs, bread, and soup ingredients, and let guests contribute β a guest who cooks Friday breakfast or brings weekend groceries is helping in exactly the way that makes hosting sustainable.
Is this financial advice?
No. This article is general financial education, not personal financial advice. Your circumstances, income, and debts are your own, and the worked examples use round figures to show the method, not to tell you what to spend. For decisions about your own money, check the official sources below or speak to a qualified adviser.
Official sources to verify: Consumer Financial Protection Bureau β credit card guides, Nutrition.gov β food and nutrition information.
Your next step
Do the first three things today, while this guide is still open. First, write down your Thanksgiving total β one number, based on what you can set aside over the next four weeks without missing a bill. Second, message your guests: confirm who is coming, who is staying over, and who is bringing which dish. Third, move the first part of the money into a separate pot right now, and set aside the rest as it arrives. Those three actions take about twenty minutes, and they are the difference between a Thanksgiving you enjoy and a January you dread.